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For my 31st fun fact, I want to share that I have a new favorite shopping store, Azure Standard! 

If you can be flexible in your schedule, I highly recommend ordering from Azure Standard. They have wheat berries and dry goods that are significantly cheaper than a traditional grocery store.

The only catch is that you have to meet at the dropoff location, and you never know the exact date and time until the week before. So again, flexibility is a must.

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So now, let’s jump into the ministry of homemaking and the 5 prioritizing skills every Christian woman needs to know. Check out my bundle deal to help overcome the common prioritizing struggles!!

Start with Prayer

It’s not a ministry of homemaking if God isn’t the priority. Without him, we can do nothing. 

This is why it’s so important to start your day with prayer. 

Not only does this bring a clear mindset, but it will help you accomplish far more than you could ever imagine. And I’m saying this from personal experience. 

When I prioritized God in the busiest moments of my life, things just unexplainably fell into place. 

And not only that, but things that once seemed important became irrelevant after spending time with God. And I think that’s part of what it is to be human. We get so wrapped up in trivial things that we forget the important stuff. But if we put God at #1, we’ll subconsciously prioritize what matters in life without thinking about it. 

One of the easiest ways to do this is to ask. Ask God to direct your steps for the day. Pray that he will be with you and KNOW that the holy spirit is in our hearts, guiding our way. 

If you’re struggling with knowing how to fit God into your morning routine, I have a full guide on how to do so in the article above. 

Be Realistic with the Time You Need

Being realistic about how long it takes to complete a task is the second skill in your ministry of homemaking. After all, we only have 24 hours in a day.

I struggle SO hard with this one at times. Unfortunately, I never give myself enough time to complete a task. And at the end of the day, this only leaves me feeling stressed and frustrated because I can’t check off all the things on my list to do. 

For example, last year, I went peach picking with a friend. I wanted to preserve and make a ton of peach desserts to freeze, so I opted for the large tray and picked a ton of peaches.

The farmer warned me that peaches don’t have a long shelf life. I told myself, “nah, I have time”. 

As you can imagine, I threw away a ton of peaches because I didn’t have enough time to get through them all. I was also anxious about finding the time to finish what I had set out to do.

So, be realistic with the time you have. Also, don’t be afraid of cutting back.

Sometimes, less is more. And I think simple living should be encouraged more than it is.

If you struggle with answering the call to a slow-living lifestyle, you’re just in luck! Check out the article above for a detailed guide on how to answer the call for a simple life. 

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Listen to Your Body- Don’t Force It

Next up in the 5 prioritizing skills for the ministry of homemaking is to listen to your body and not force getting things done.

Now, I’m not saying don’t ever do the dishes because you don’t feel like it. I am saying to listen to your body and what it’s trying to tell you.

If your homemaking routine starts with dishes and then laundry to follow, switch it up. If you feel like doing laundry more, then do that first.

Don’t feel like you have to keep a rigid schedule. 

Part of what makes homemakers essential in a household is the flexibility. If you go out of your way to be flexible for everyone else and not yourself, then you’re doing it wrong. 

Everyone is in a different season of life. You are in a different season of life than 5 years ago. So, tasks may take longer to accomplish because of external factors such as kids, a new home, anxiety or depression, or even a full or part-time job. 

If your body is telling you it doesn’t feel like doing dishes at that specific moment, wait a bit. It could be God’s whisper to delay that chore.

For example, my husband does the vacuuming (yes, he likes it, and yes, he is slightly OCD). But if he vacuums the kitchen before I make dinner, he runs the risk of having to do it again because I dropped cauliflower bits all over the floor when I was cutting it up. 

Sometimes, waiting is the best thing you can do. And if you’re body is sending you signals to put it off, it might be worth listening to.

Again, if you’re trying to discern, give it to God. Pray about it. Give it a minute and feel the way he is directing your steps. 

Take Part in Finacial Matters

The 4th skill out of the 5 for the ministry of homemaking prioritization tips is to be involved and intentional in financial matters.

When it comes to homemaking, this isn’t talked about.

And I think it’s so sad. Many traditional homemaking tips don’t discuss finances. They assume the husband who provides the income should be in charge of financial matters, but I think this way of thinking lacks balance.

Your husband might make the money, but it’s your job to leverage it. So, both parties need to be involved. 

And why wouldn’t you want that? If time equals money, and the husband provides the money, don’t you think you would want to make that dollar stretch? Knowing that taking part in financial matters and doing what you can will only increase the value of his time.

It means cooking certain meals over others because it feeds a large family. Or having a zero-waste mentality in the kitchen and utilizing every part of the food. 

It means learning the art of saving money so you can invest in important things.

Or even learning what constitutes as a frivolous item and how to stop buying such things that hold you down financially. 

Either way, taking part in financial matters plays a big role in homemaking.

Know Your Love Language

Last but not least, in prioritization skills you need to know in the ministry of homemaking is knowing your love language. 

This skill is not talked about nearly enough!

Because the reality is, if you know your love language and can fulfill it in your homemaker role, then you will find so much PURPOSE.

But if you don’t know your love language to prioritize it, then your responsibilities as a homemaker will get old real quick.

Take, for example, the love language of quality time. 

That is my top love language, so I make sure I spend time with the people in my inner circle. 

Whether it be quality time with my husband or hosting a ladies’ paint-and-sip night like in the article above. Spending time with others is how I feel the most loved. And this love trickles into my work as a homemaker. 

So, learn your love language and prioritize it in your daily schedule.  

Ministry of Homemaking: 5 Prioritizing Skills Every Christian Woman Needs to Know

So there you have it! The ministry of homemaking prioritization skills that every woman needs to know! I hope you enjoyed reading about this and got some handy skills to have in your back pocket. Comment below on your favorite homemaking skill or even the one you struggle with the most. Until next time!

Love,

Katie T 

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